well you have to be more relaxed about it, if you stiffen up too much, then the head will always be there, try to let it develop out of a conversation and just touch the other person's pants every now and then first.
well you have to be more relaxed about it, if you stiffen up too much, then the head will always be there, try to let it develop out of a conversation and just touch the other person's pants every now and then first.
It's all about swallowing another guy's pride and joyOriginally Posted by Kip2june
The real courage is making that call / contact with a guy and the walking through the door.
Once you are in the company of another man you both know what you both there for.
When you take his cock in your mouth you'll wounder what all the fuss was about
Like so many others, I’ve wanted to experience anything and possibly everything with someone else that has a cock. I especially want to suck one and swallow, but alas will probably always chicken out!
I'm in my mid fifties and have been thinking about it for about 10 years. I'm worried about STDs. Everytime I get close to meeting a guy; I shut it down. Any advice on getting over the fear?
I was in Juvenile detention as a kid. I was always getting in trouble. The guards at night would pull us out and rough us up in attempt to be at the fight out of us.
One night a guard pulled me out and took me to the basement. When we got there, I saw another guard. They made me strip naked and threw me into the padded cell.
Later that night they both returned and made me suck them. They told me either to suck them or they would fuck me in the ass. That was a lie as they took turns spit-roasting me. I was furious at first but after they returned me to my cell and knowing I had to keep the secret, it excited the 15 year old horny kid. It happened several times after that and I never said a word.
So, I had no choice or time to think about sucking my first cock, it was decided for me. I'm not bitter though, because because being in control of my own sexuality has opened many doors for me and brought me sexual pleasure.
I can relate to so many of you. I have fantasized about sex with a man for years, especially about receiving anal but sucking also. But being married, in my community and with my circle of homophobic friends there has never been an opportunity. Unless I am not picking up the signals. At my age it will probably never happen but would love to be in a situation to at least see if I could/would sick a cock.
18 months after I posted this, I found the right man, with the right cock, in the right situation, got down on my knees, and sucked his cock like a pro until he was cumming down my throat. If you want it bad enough, it will happen for you.
I am a married, closeted bi guy, 55. I fantasized about sucking a guy for many years before I got up the nerve to do it. I hade been thinking about it since my mid 30s. I was always worried about STDs and was I going to hate what it tasted like. I did not suck my first cock all the way till just a a couple years ago. I have a married fwb who I hade been meeting with 4 or 5 times a year for a couple years. He loved sucking my cock and some times I would suck him a little but never all the way. I liked how his cock felt in my mouth, his precum tasted great but I was still nervous to go all the way. After a few years of us meeting one day I just told him I wanted to do it and to not warn me when he was going to cum, I told him to just shoot when he was ready. I went down on him and took his load, swallowed it all. Afterwards he went down on me and I was so turned on after sucking him off I hade one of the biggest orgasms' of my life. It was fantastic and the first thought that came to mind was, why did I wait so long to do this.
I wasn't necessarily afraid to suck my first cock, I was more worried about anyone I know finding out that I sucked cock. I CAN'T have my wife finding out or family/friends.
I would lose the desire to meet up after I cum too. Now I resist the urge to cum if I know that I'll be meeting anyone.
Im still worried about getting found out, but my urge to suck a big cock is getting too strong to resist.
I went through this as a teen. You do me I’ll do you type thing. As an adult it was about finding someone who I could play with in secret so it wasn’t going to out me. Then I found guys don’t really care and if you are in the right place you can find a few dicks to suck. Some guys spit some swallow some just suck then finish by jerking. I’m a swallower. Nothing to fear if you like your dick sucked and you like to cum without interruption you know what’s going to happen. Just find someone and try it. If you don’t like it then don’t do it again.
just if you jerk off while blowing him DONT cum first it you may lose your desire and end up leaving him hanging. For a long time I was that way if I came first I was done. Now it dosent matter. I might need a couple of mins to come down to finish him, but I have no problem finishing him. After a while it became all about the cum. It’s something special going about my day with someone’s cum in my belly or my ass. It’s my little intimate secret that only he and I know about.
Well after starting this thread more than 3 years ago I finally sucked a cock and swallowed cum in April of 2024. Did it again a few times, then took a break for a while. I was not so crazy about it as I never get hard when sucking. I think I was too excited, and concentrated.
Just sucked another cock after a six month break which was my 7th cock. Now I love it more than ever, and was almost getting hard while doing it, and after he shot his cum in my mouth I kept his cock in my mouth for at least a minute and did get hard then. I was naked in the forest on my knees. LOL
I think I love cock, and love cum even more.
My problem too. I am only looking for married guys who want a BJ. Getting better at finding them now.
What has helped you find them? That's what I'm looking for as well. Just trying to minimize risks...
The first one wasn’t an issue, as I knew him exceptionally well and we were both exclusive, just graduated and had a summer of fun exploration and kind of as much “love” as on can have at 18 before we both went off to colleges on almost opposite sides of the country. The second one was the scary one, just met the guy at a party the 2nd month of college, he was older, invited me back to his place, not familiar with what he liked, was looking for, and after making out in his living room and him stripping me down, he asked me back to his room, I sat on the edge of his bed and un-did his pants, he was a bit bigger, didn’t have the cute little curve my ex boyfriend had, kissed better though, I took him in my mouth and was still freaking out! Was I doing this right? According to my knew friend, it was ok, but he guided me with a few tips finally eased my nerves. I ended up spending the night, and the walk of shame the next day had me so paranoid I hit the student clinic, asked for all of the tests, was told I needed to wait on a few, stressed out for about a month, ignored his calls and pages(it was the 90’s) finally got a clean bill of health, and rea
out to the guy only to find it was now my turn to be ignored.
Wow. This is the kind of first-time story that guys who haven't sucked cock yet wants to avoid. The thing is that you won't ever know what's going to happen until you start doing it and it doesn't help that when you do it for that first time, you become paranoid and of a mind that everyone who sees you knows what you did last night. It can "take a while" for a guy to realize that, um, no - everybody not only doesn't know what I did, they don't even know who I am! Some guys relax after this and it's on to the next cock to suck while some guys remain paranoid and, often, to the extent that the people who do know them are asking, "Dude, what the hell is wrong with you?"
The last thing a guy coming home from this situation wants to deal with is people asking him questions he (a) doesn't want to answer or (b) is going to tell a big fat lie to explain why he's acting weird. Just know that a lot of guys have their very first time and... none of this shows up to mess with him so, new guys, learn from stories like this but remember: Just because it happened to someone else isn't a guarantee that it's going to happen to you.
Now, go ye forth and suck cock!
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