First Time and Nervous...

[xblade]

Lately I've been wanting to try and suck a cock to see what its like.
So I've been looking CL for a while to find any other college guys who would let me suck them discreetly, well I have found one and I want to go through with it.

But Im nervous and was wondering do u guys have any tips for my first suck??

[roy m cox]

i have a very good tip for you make sure he is clean and make sure he has a resent blood test if you plan on drinking semen or pee you don't want any std s .

and make sure he has a clean penis nothing like the taste of old pee or semen yuk i ran in to guy's that think it's ok just to put up with the smell and taste of it i walked away ...

and yeah you'll run into guy's that like to drink pee just taste you own to see if you would like it or not , me i like just the semen , my bf likes both pee and semen ,,

and don't be nervous just stay calm and have fun :tong:

:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:

[xblade]

Alright cool, thanks...

I've made sure hey was disease free, and we agreed on showers for both of us before I come over.

[torpedoman]

Good advice so far.
When you both get naked go down and touch him all over. Look to see if all is okay. No bumps, sores, smell. Then do what you like being done to you. Kiss the head. Lick all around the head and then up and down the shaft. Cradle his balls with one hand and his ass with the other. Then open your mouth and take his cock in your mouth. Work your hand up and down the shaft as you bob your head up and down. Ask him to tell you when he is ready to cum. If you don't want a mouth full of cum then finish him with your hand. Or get ready for a full load of hot cum. You then need to make up your mind to swallow or not. If not then let it run out of your mouth but keep sucking so he gets the full pleasure of your hot mouth.
If swallowing the do it and keep on sucking his cock.
Have fun!

[fredtyg]

And please be sure to come back here and let us know how it went.

[fuckmegood50]

You have gotten a lot of good advice about safety and health above. Now, as for technique, keep that tongue moving and keep plenty of saliva working for you. Jack him off below your lips when you can. Keep that tongue moving all over his cock.

[xblade]

Alright thanks guys for all the advice and I've already made up my mind on the cum part...Im going to swallow so I can get the full experience the first time.

[miamiuu]

can be hard if you dont now how to suck dick to get that cum. some people can suck cum out like a vacuum cleaner and some guys you got to suck for like an hour. im not into precum or cum in the mouth. that stuff taste funny.

[Realist]

Depends a lot of the person's diet.

As posted here many times, eating non-acidic fruits and vegetables a day before, will insure semen has a much nicer flavor.

Both my GF and I practice this. Pineapple, pears, apples, plums, etc, etc, are great.

Avoid pungent foods like, strong meat, asparagus, onions, garlic, some medicines.......

[xblade]

I've already tasted my own cum, and I find the taste undescribeable, but decent...

So I really want to see what someone else's cum tastes like.

[berryhard]

i was nervous first time as well. jsut be sure you both know what to expect and agree on what your doing and how far you are willing to go.
i found talking too lng makes it uncumfortable. we agreed we would both strip and i would suck him first then him me. we know what was going to happen and make it easier to "get going"
it was awesome, gets better each time ! taking a hot load of cum is awesome, a facial, on my chest, my ass, my cock or in my mouth, all great ! have fun, relax and enjoy it all.....

[matutum]

Alright thanks guys for all the advice and I've already made up my mind on the cum part...Im going to swallow so I can get the full experience the first time.

practice sucking a pickle or popsickle, look,smell,lookcloser,and if in doubt use a rubber

[matutum]

I've already tasted my own cum, and I find the taste undescribeable, but decent...

So I really want to see what someone else's cum tastes like.

taste depends on your diet also, have to eat certain foods for about 2 weeks to notice a change..used to put legs against wall to cum in mouth but hurt my back..

[matutum]

i was nervous first time as well. jsut be sure you both know what to expect and agree on what your doing and how far you are willing to go.
i found talking too lng makes it uncumfortable. we agreed we would both strip and i would suck him first then him me. we know what was going to happen and make it easier to "get going"
it was awesome, gets better each time ! taking a hot load of cum is awesome, a facial, on my chest, my ass, my cock or in my mouth, all great ! have fun, relax and enjoy it all.....

some guys when the testosterone is gone so are they..double cummers are rare

[lizard-lix]

I didn't see anyone mention getting feedback..

Ask him to tell you how you are doing and what he is enjoying and certainly if you re doing anything he doesn't like...

Some like fast, some slow, some hard, some soft and smooth.. Teeth, no teeth, etc...

Like any other relationship, communication is the key.

It sounds like you have been doing a great job of communication so far (disease check, agreeing on showers, etc).

Keep it up when you get to the fun part!

Happy cocksucking and enjoy the cum! (and the whole experience!)

Liz

[Maggot]

Some great advice here already. As it's your first time, it may not be a good idea to try deep throating - best practice that in private with a life size dildo for a while first and get to know and trust your partner as well.

Anything done to balls during a BJ should be done very carefully/gently - they are (I am told) very sensitive things and easily bruised.

Make sure that you are comfortable, try having your partner sitting on the edge of the bed, propped up on pillows - makes things a little easier for you, and you both get a good view of each other. Don't just grab for the tackle!

No - go in slowly, work your way up the inside of each thigh with your hands and then your mouth/tongue - stroke up the outer thigh, across the belly and down the other side - avoiding contact with his cock and/or balls for now. Push his legs a little further apart and work your way up the inner thighs again - this time stroke the balls and shaft of the cock with the palm of your hand, no pumping just yet and don't touch the head. You could ask him if he wants you to suck his cock at this stage.

Slowly take his cock shaft in your hand and pump a few times, lick the palm of your hand and run it over the head of his cock. Gripping firmly (not too tight) push your hand down to his balls, he'll be up like a flag pole, make sure you have plenty of spit on your tongue and lick from your hand, up the length of his shaft to just before the head - lift off and - look him in the eye if you want, stick your tongue out like licking an icecream, lick the head very slowly and keeping your tongue in place lower your mouth over the head and suck very gently, you can move your tongue a bit at this stage.

Keep your head in that position for a while, pumping with your hand - you can gently cup and squeeze his balls as well. Increase the pressure of sucking and pull your mouth off his cock. Using both hands, one after the other, cover the head of his cock and slide your hand down the shaft, then take the head of his cock in your mouth again, be a little more forceful this time, keeping your hand about halfway down the shaft, slide his cock deeper into your mouth and lift off, not quite letting the head out of your mouth, down and up, down and up. You could pump your hand in the opposite direction. Keeping your hand on his shaft is a good way to make sure he doesn't go too deep for your comfort.

Mix things up a little - suck his balls, push his cock up against his belly and take his balls either one at a time or both into your mouth and suck, really, really gently. You could lift them up and lick from the taint, up the middle of the balls and along the shaft back up to the head.

Using your hands gives your jaw a rest and can increase the intensity of sensations - a firm squeeze at the base of the cock (like a cock ring) makes the head swell and become even more sensitive.

Hope you enjoy giving your first BJ.

[Bisexual Explorer]

I learned to suck by watching porn and reviewing regularly to keep myself up to date. I prefer straight because I so identify with the "actress," but gay will do as nicely. A good porn actress/actor gets the guy going with her hands and mouth (do what they do) and by letting him know how much she enjoys having him in her/his mouth.
Most of all, relax and remember this is fun.
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