My strange case

[Criisti]

Hy im new here and this is my first post. Me and my gf we are together since high school, 10 years now, i know she loves me very much. I am bi. 100% sure. And i want to tell her. But im afraid of her reaction.some strange things happened in our relationship and i would like to tell u about them, after that i would be very thankful for some opinions.

Occasionally when we have time we spend the night together with a bottle of vine in the bathtub.of course we get a little drunk ant the hot water... We end ip having wild sex. It happened many times that i got rimmed by her. One night she brought to me her little dildo and after rimming me she inserted it into my anus. Once se started to blow me as we where on the bet , took her vibrator and gave it to me telling me " u can use it if you want" of course i used it. One night i was out with a couple of friends we had a couple of drinks and i have to admit i was a little dizzy when i got home. She was in bed watching tv, i was horny moved the channel to porn and started talking with her about the penis .. How big the actors has and she saw mine getting bigger and she went on sucking on it. In the meantime while blowing me se told me she would love a second dick in her, and why not maybe watch me with one in my mouth.Always the next day she is not talking about what happened last night.
i have to tell u guys and girls when all those things happened we where a little drunk, when we have sex on normal day these things never happen, no rimming no dildo nothing.
I am freeking out here. What should i do? Thank you

[tenni]

Hi Criisti
Welcome to the site. "They" say that alcohol reduces inhibitions. You know that she may be open to a threesome if she is tipsy. Do you watch porn with her? That may be a door opener to watch a bisexual porn with two men and a woman.

I sense that you said nothing when she mentioned about wanting to see you with a dick in your mouth? Maybe, if you can get her to watch a biporn you might mention that you would be open "someday" to acting out some of the scenes and see her reaction?

I would prescreen the porn first though. Not all women are comfortable watching porn.

Good fortune to you.

[Criisti]

She has no problem with porn but told me she likes it better doing. How should i start? " o baby look what appeared on the tv" lol

[tenni]

What is your goal?
Ask if she would like to see you suck dick one day?(open for the future) Let that slip out while watching porn one day and see what she says ;)

[BicuriousIndy2]

She could just be acting a "fantasy" of hers. Many won't act on it and keep it a fantasy. Nothing says you have to jump in now. Bring her along slow, buy her a strap-on to use on you.

[fredtyg]

Sounds to me as if she's fairly interested in doing threesomes and such. She may have been a little drunk, but as has been pointed out, alcohol reduces inhibitions and people say what they might be afraid to say sober. I wouldn't be too upfront about it but I'd feel fairly confident in bringing it more out into the open. Sounds like she's into it but needs some encouragement that you enjoy that sort of thing, too.

[Visexual]

OK, it’s going to be difficult but, bring up her ‘sex talk’ when you’re both sober.

Just open the dialogue with something like, “I love you and want to make you happy anyway I can. You’ve sex talked a few times about wanting us to have a threesome with another guy. Would that be something you’d like to really talk about doing? And if you really wanted to see me suck his cock, of course I would.”