Where are all the girls that want to have there cake and eat it to?

[Tripdoll]

Why is it so hard to find a woman that is interested in a long term relationship with a cute young couple? We have been trying for about a year now to find a woman to join us, even just for fun, and with no luck. there are so many interested people, but once it comes down to actually meeting they ditch everytime, well except once, but she turned out to be married, and a better friend than lover.

Has anybody else had as hard of a time as we have? I'm seriously thinking about giving up, but I can't because I love women, I miss the feel of a womens body, the taste of her juices, and just having a girl to pal around with. Is it so horrible to love my boyfriend but want a girlfriend also, we have enough love to go around, but that doesn't seem to matter. Lol sorry I'm a little frustrated.

But anywayz....

[spartca]

Why is it so hard to find a woman that is interested in a long term relationship with a cute young couple? We have been trying for about a year now to find a woman to join us, even just for fun, and with no luck. there are so many interested people, but once it comes down to actually meeting they ditch everytime, well except once, but she turned out to be married, and a better friend than lover.

Has anybody else had as hard of a time as we have? I'm seriously thinking about giving up, but I can't because I love women, I miss the feel of a womens body, the taste of her juices, and just having a girl to pal around with. Is it so horrible to love my boyfriend but want a girlfriend also, we have enough love to go around, but that doesn't seem to matter. Lol sorry I'm a little frustrated.

But anywayz....

Why is it so hard to find a cute young couple that embodies the stereotypes of heterosexist, patriarchal values, like in the porn films? I'm a really good looking woman, so I just ignore all those losers and scrubs. There are so many interested couples, but I'm not really looking for the validation of a legal marriage like they have or even any of my own relationships. I just want to make their lives complete so that we can all pretend we're in one of those straight porn films.

I've been trying for a year and I've had *lots* of great sex, but everytime I talk about the future or meeting their families they ditch me. Plus they're always married, and I'll never be on a level playing field with them, so they always end up being better lovers than true friends.

Has anyone else had as hard a time as I have? But anyways...

[ghytifrdnr]

Yes. Up in my corner of the world too, it seems there are way more people who want to talk about it than do it. :(

[pecker]

I'm on a roll,,,,, 3 tonite Maybe the girls your looking for to mail you back are looking for someone suitable for them.Not everyone gets what there looking for.Maybe your not what you think you are and they mailed someone else.DUUHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[gunit69]

I am one of those girl that like to have my cake and eat it too. If thats what you want to call it. I am real very few women are. If there is something I want I get it. I am honest from the beginning of a relationship to the end.. For example, I am presently dating 2 guys and a female. They all know about each other . I have been completely honest from the beginning. Thats what we take for granted in todays society. What is a relationship? Keeping it real is important. I have no girlfriend or boyfriend, I will continue to keep my options open until I find someone with the qualities that I am looking for. It is hard when you don't know what you want, but i do. Until i meet someone with those things why should I limit myself as long as I am real about it? :female: