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I love your blogs and especially your erotic stories. I do feel that straight men do try too hard to be men. It's hilarious when a man is afraid of a woman touching their asshole because they are scared that a woman would give him too much pleasure and then he turns gay. Or maybe they are afraid of the pain of something stretching and ripping their asshole by something like a woman's tongue. I have a straight best friend who believed that there is no such thing as a bisexual man. He believes if a man enjoys sucking another man's dick then he's not bi but just plain gay. Then I told him a few years later that I was bisexual. We're still friends now and no, I never sucked his dick. I always preferred the older gay or bisexual men that were tops. But yeah, love your stories on here.

Oh and good luck and happy hunting to you both.

Thanks for your encouraging words. We really believe that some day in the future all type of sexuality will be accepted as part of our human condition without social preference for any in specific, when everyone will be considered truly equal no matter what kind of sex they do enjoy, and gay, bisexual or straight sex become options in an open menu to try it as we go.

I would like to live in that world. At least we are making improvements. I was usually scared in my 20s and serving in the Navy because I had to worry about the Don't Ask Don't Tell policy.

The sexual revolution of 50 years ago fizzled and died. It began in kind of a naive innocence and in the face of reality and new forms of STDs, it withered and sank back into prejudice and fear. In contrast, sexuality in the media exploded and has only gotten more blatant and bold. The porn industry has been the singular champion of kinky sex and without it the attitudes of our society would have retreated from the issue in totality.

Being bisexual has come a long way, but not nearly completed the journey to wholesale acceptance. In order for that to happen we would need to take a lesson from the gay community and come out of the closet. Once that occurred and the straights and vanillas realized we have them surrounded there wouldn't be much choice for them but to accept us. It's a dream, I know, but hope still remains while the heart still beats.

In order to remove the borders that society has placed around us and our sexuality, we have to reject the current paradigm. If it happened all at once it would most likely be a mess. It would be a bumpy road in the beginning, divorce rates will go up for all the closeted married bisexuals. The straight majority will think we are coming out of the woodwork. They will believe the fabric of our society is failing and life will end as we know it. They would believe it was the end of the nuclear family and all it's social connotations.

What's more likely to happen is a gradual shift of attitude as our children grow up and their more accepting attitudes take hold in society, being bisexual or gay will be more accepted. Our paradigm will still shift but it will occur slowly over time as the baby boomers fade into history. Sex will replace sexuality, gender will be less of a big deal as acceptance is gained in society. The stigma of male on male penetration will not be seen as degrading a man's virility or masculinity. There is an example of the ultra-masculine within the gay community, the gay leather community is a cult of the ultra-masculine. They are the embodiment of testosterone laden masculine males who lift weights and appreciate the male form and still enjoy other men sexually.

As for "sex without borders", finding a partner who is capable of shedding the antiquated attitudes society places on us is a daunting proposition. Many still see male on male kissing as entirely too gay,but are perfectly willing to suck cock and take a hot load of cum in their mouth. The irony is staggering in that alone, not to mention the stigma of anal penetration. The long and the short of it is, we have issues. We aren't at home with ourselves if we can't even accept the way people interact sexually and be comfortable within that. Many struggle to even define what bisexuality is, some say it is about whom you're attracted to, others whom you actually have sex with. Some only are only comfortable with oral, others are no holds barred. It's maddening at the diversity of labeling alone.

Its time we all began to free our minds, once that happens the whole of society will begin to see us differently. We are all the masters of our own destiny, but we are too worried about fitting within the confines society has dictated to us. We have to reject the status quo and accept ourselves, that means not being ashamed to be free in the bedroom. Free to kiss, free to fuck, free to care and free to love. It's the legacy of the sexual revolution, free love. Who'da thought 50 years later it would still be just a dream?

2bi2Bboring: It couldn't have been said in a better way. I'm lucky. This is what my friends say when I told then that my wife entirely agrees with me on these issues. The female part has a big role to play. Many of them actually practice bisexuality sometimes even openly but don't feel comfortable when their husbands want to try it on their own. Many are scared of having to compete not only with other women but with other men as well in keeping safe their marriage. Without doubts without the help of our female counterparts this battle can't be won. Fear of sex interfering with emotions is imprinted in their mind, while men are more likely to separate the pleasurable moment from their romantic relationship with the person they currently are. This is why more gay couples, the really liberated ones that don't try to imitate the social establishment of the marriage as it is recognized by the law almost everywhere in the world, are free to try threesomes or foursomes with other partners or accept an open relationship. We definitively need the help of our women to understand the fact that we love them beyond sex, because that's for us part of the entertainment, besides being a basic biological need.

My fantasy is what if everybody was bisexual? It might make a more open mined world. I always thought being bisexual was a curse of both worlds instead of the best of both worlds. It has been hard finding that perfect somebody that would accept me for who I am, but I have found her. I am not really into the polyamorous lifestyle but I can't deny that I am bisexual.

i have been bicurious for years let me tell u all it's been a long journey lol. it's still pretty confusing, i go from having sex with a guy the only thing on my mind to questioning how much i really want guys & thinking i'm forcing myself to like guys more than i do. but i do know somethings. i know i want the freedom to do whatever i want with consenting people. after struggling with this for years i have discovered i gotta give myself permission to be bisexual. something society still doesn't do too much. i would be more @ peace with myself sooner if only i was encouraged to seek who i really am rather than having my sexuality dictated to me. i think it's getting better but there's still a long way to go. i choose not to deny i'm curious about trying different things sexually, some people can't/won't even do that. i wish people didn't make such a big deal & we could just be free to enjoy, willingly & safely of course. i'm not saying i am bisexual i just want the right to be bisexual. if it turns out im' bi it would be a great burden lifted off of me but if i'm str8 it would legitimize my str8ness cause it would be who i am, not just society's demand.

Sysper, I totally support your decision to try things. Unfortunately we are spoiled by the bombardment since our birth of the monogamous heterosexual normative to the point that we believe we were born that way. If you open your mind and focus only on the pleasure you are receiving or giving to someone, you will find that there is no any barrier except for the one we have built in our mind, which is the hardest to strike down. We met a really super straight guy that wanted to try how was it with a couple. We warned him that with us there were no barriers in who can touch what and so on. The first time I touched him in the ass he felt very uncomfortable but insisted and soon he was moaning with real pleasure. At the end I asked him how was it and he said it was difficult fir him when he pictured a guy touching his ass and brushing his cock on his face, but when he stopped thinking about it and focused exclusively in the pleasure it was a great experience. The next time he managed to completely get rid of the gay visual stigma and sucked his first dick and even when he said it wasn't a big deal for him, he appreciated the fact that he was giving pleasure to me who was a partner in the threesome, and from that he also found pleasure himself. This is an example of how getting rid of the stereotypes and focusing exclusively on the sensations and the rewards of providing pleasure not just to a woman but to a male friend too become the norm rather than the exception in people's mind.