Fiddlestyx
Member

I think what I've experienced is perhaps relatively common. In the early stages of a relationship one often talks about one's past sexual history. My wife and I had extremely full and varied histories in the days before we met. We let each other know that we'd both had bi situations in our past but then the topic sort of got dropped for the most part as we busily behaved like two teenagers. She was 48 when we met and I 55. I suspect that if we'd met a decade earlier we'd have had a pretty active bi play life, but as her hormonal urges have vanished it has gone to somewhere beyond remote. Ah, what might have been... one of the reasons I've landed on this site, as I'm giving thought to reviving my bi side some. A life without sex feels quite intolerable, but having an affair (with a woman) is never going to be in the cards no matter what. Women always fall in love with me and it gets horrifyingly messy. Dealing with the situation is one of the things I'm here to work out!

Enjoyed reading you 'ish' bio. Loved the being out-ish to your wife who's also bi-ish. We're the same... I like the term coming out.