How long does it take for you to cum?

I just met another older gentleman, we?re both 70. He?s new to being with another man. I guess bi-curious about the whole thing. He says he wants to suck my cock, and to my surprise, cum in his mouth. But he expects me to cum within a minute or two. Not happening ?.. He gives up, I suck him and he?s done within a minute or two, gets dressed and leaves. He feels he?s not a good cock sucker cause I didn?t cum fast enough. I try to explain that I?ve been doing this for a while, and sometimes a little bit of time playing around to get worked up enough to cum. He?s alone and horny and cums almost instantly. What can I do or say to get him to chill out and take some time and enjoy the situation. I?m not talking hours here, just maybe 15 minutes. How long does it take for you guys to cum?

I rarely cum from oral. It's worse after turning 65. I just don't have the sensitivity that I used to. Nothing at all negative towards the giving person!

From what little experience I have had I have never cum from oral alone. It requires some hand jacking along with it, either by me or the giver.

I cum when being sucked and it varies depending on several things, usually maybe 10 minutes or so, maybe sooner if he messes with my balls and butt.

For me pretty fast specially if I am getting my ass eaten out! I have a new FWB partner and he loves to eat me good! I have to tell him to stop so that I am able to pace myself and not cum too fast and spoil the fun.

I can cum fairly quickly if I want but I like to make it last awhile. The last time I fucked my bottom friend I went a little to long and he got sore, had to finish me with his mouth.

these days , it takes a very long time for me to cum. i think it has to do with my blood pressure medicine . maybe with a combination of age thrown in. i can cum while fucking , but blowjobs are out of the question.

Never came from getting oral. I usually take about 45 minutes to hour

As I've grown older, it takes me a long time with alot of stimulation. I cannot cum in my wife's pushy by fucking alone. I can cum via my buddy's BJ, but that comes with alot of jacking.

I am old, but, I rarely last longer than 5 to 10 minutes when receiving a blowjob. My partner takes much longer and requires jacking him off as well.
That works for me because I very much enjoy the extra time I get to suck his dick.

it seems the old a person gets the longer it takes for them to cum or even get hard. i sucked an 80 year old took him 15 minutes to get hard and another 25 minutes for him to cum in my mouth and when he did he cummed so much it was leaking out of the corners of my mouth. after he calmed down from orgassm he said give him another hour and he give me orgasms in my hole and did he ever

Depends on the situation

Takes me longer from just anal, but I can cum a few times from getting fucked and the refractory period gets shorter after each time I cum.

With straight cock stimulation (or if im doing the fucking), it depends on the intensity. Of course those orgasms come with a longer refractory period.