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I am usually a top, but recently tried to bottom without much luck.
My first experience was with a girl I dated on Tinder; she used a butt plug on me, and I didn't get any sensation. Her ex appeared to have enjoyed it.
Then I met a versatile guy and tried to bottom for him, again I didn't enjoy, it was pain and no sensation or turn on.
Am I doing something wrong, or is it normal that some guys do not have those sensations?
Thanks
A butt plug may not give much in the way of sensation other than the anus opening area, a vibrating one can be stimulating. Butt plugs are good for stretching.Quote:
Originally Posted by jimhi
The main thing for enjoyment of being buggered is a willingness to do it, the gradual warm up, don't expect to take a 8 incher the first time.
Lube is key and body position.
You seem to be willing to try, don't give up, it will need a few attempts find a skilled top / vers who know how to hit the prostate
An experienced and compassionate top will know and take the time to get you well-lubed and dilated before going in. I sed this toy and it works just fine.Attachment 63620
It probably depends on if you really want to bottom or not. My first time bottoming was with a guy who was 8+" long and thick. No lube, just saliva. There was no pain at all. The only warm up was sucking each other and then he fucked me. Now all I want are long and thick cocks. I like using a thick, 10" dildo. I enjoy the deep stretch.Quote:
Originally Posted by jimhi
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I can relate. I have always loved to have my ass played with. I've slept with a lot of women over the years but most are not at all interested in a guys ass. There have been a few and it was always a huge turn on for me. One GF would use vibrators, plugs on my ass while sucking my cock. This led to us getting a strap on for her with a not to thick cock to use on me. I would jack off while she fucked me with it, it was a huge turn on and a great cum. But I think it was more of a mental turn on than anything else.
The one time I was fucked by another guy really didn't do much for me. I like fucking him way more than him fucking me so after that I just topped other guys and sucked cocks. I love to fuck a hot ass (male or female) and I love to suck cock and eat pussy. A hot pussy cream pie is really hot
Some guys just don't enjoy anal no matter what. Others find it unbelievably pleasurable & pain free. Its just the way they're built. You MAY be in that first group, but its possible that anxiety is creating a barrier that you'd need to overcome. Dildos are they way to go, start small & use lots of lube. Massage your balls & jerk off at the same time, this way its possible that your body will relax enough to let you discover whole new world of pleasurable sensations.
I would love to fuck that smooth hot ass!Quote:
Originally Posted by DLazguy
I'm not interested in getting pegged. I want the real thing. Plus, my wife would never agree to pegging. I've only bottomed once, but I want to feel another thick cock in me. I'm very picky, so a dildo will have to do until I find me a hung top. I would like to fuck my wife while having a big plug in meQuote:
Originally Posted by chongster
First guy was only one I've ever enjoyed. Ive tried few other guys and it's been hurtful and uncomfortable.