Ejaculating in a guy's anus...what are your thoughs?

[cbb83]

My thought is get yourself and your partner(s) tested before hand then have as much unprotected sex as you'd like.

Random partners... honestly never a great idea in this day and age. I understand that sometimes it just happens and all, but you should really try to make a conscious effort to know the people you're having sex with before having sex with them.

As an aside... I never understand this "makes me feel like a woman" mindset a lot of men have. I have never once felt anything less than masculine being with other men, whether I was topping or bottoming. I also don't inherently feel submissive when receiving. I mean a chic's not inherently submissive from receiving, why would a man be? I wonder that if you're having these feelings about "being a woman" if you should not consider seeing a psychologist to determine whether or not you have gender dysphoria. Maybe you'd feel better in life if you embraced it and began a transition?

[KDaddy23]

"As an aside... I never understand this "makes me feel like a woman" mindset a lot of men have."

This is an easy one. There is probably not too many people who aren't told that sex is only supposed to be between men and women, no exceptions. A lot of guys get into sucking cock - traditionally a woman's thing to do - or being fucked - also traditionally a woman's thing to have done - and "makes me feel like a woman" just pops into their head. Throughout my life, I've heard many a man say that having sex with another man makes them feel girly when they're in the in female/submissive role of sex and I reasoned that breaking the social conditioning that mandates this happens but it still sticks in your head anyway. You know it's only supposed to be boy/girl... and you've said, "To hell with that!" - you still remember it. I don't think it's all that much about being submissive or a matter of gender dysphoria. "Being a man" and all that's supposed to mean has been pounded into every male head for only God knows how long and, at least in my perspective, M2M stuff has only just "recently" gotten away from this kind of sex being unmanly and more talk about what "real men" can do if they want to. I recall thinking, the first time I came across this change in things, that, yeah - it take a man to do something they say men aren't supposed to do and knowing how much shit is gonna be flung their way for doing it.

All sorts of manly things: Courage, nerve, resolve, cutting out the dumb shit and getting right to the heart of the matter of things and without being indecisive about it. You know... man stuff. A lot of men can throw it down with another man and are very damned manly even when they're being ridden hard and put away wet... and some men still have that "this is a girl's thing to do!" thing hanging out in the back of their minds, that and when you have sex with a woman - and you're paying attention to how they react during sex and all that - well, some guys find they behave the exact same way or close enough for government work; hence, they feel like a woman when they are taken by a man - and either they like this feeling or they don't.

I'm not even gonna get into that "I was born into the wrong body" stuff because, again, I know too many men who feel girly when having sex with a guy - and they'd never even think about having their gender reassigned. It's just a feeling and one borne out of the only thing they have a real reference to point to: Having sex with a woman and what a woman's role in sex is supposed to be: They suck cock and get fucked. We, on the other hand, have one job to do: Fuck women but, um, hmm, don't we know that this ain't how it can really work? We can fuck other men and be fucked by them; we can be head over heels sucking a guy's cock and taking his sperm - that thing that only women are supposed to do (again).

It's not that hard to figure out and it's not always some more deeply seated psychological issue like gender dysphoria - it's just the way someone feels.

[cbb83]

Could well be! Hadn't considered it from that angle before.

[Sundazzled]

I’ve been actively bisexual for some 15 years now, but I’m a relative newbie where it comes to anal sex. I only surrendered my anal virginity a couple of summers ago to Dave, retired dentist friend who lives about an hour west of my home. Dave was somewhat insistent about his desire to fuck me bareback, but agreed to wear a condom the first time out. Since Dave had never been with another guy sexually, I allowed him to slip it off when we encountered penetration problems. I’m so glad I did!.

Ohhh! Just knowing there was no latex barrier between us was exciting. Feeling his cock slip past my sphincter, then pulse and throb as he filled me with his semen, it was so erotic, I never asked him to wear a condom again. In all, I allowed Dave to take me anally three more times, and each experience was better than the last. We found that penetration was easiest with me on top, and and there was something incredible intimate about gazing into his eyes as his orgasm washed over him. Dave was alsova huge cummer, and I found the feeling of his semen gradually trickling out of me after sex strangely arousing .

Did my experiences with anal sex make me feel like a woman? Heck, no; only a man who is very in touch with his sexuality and open to sharing new experiences with a like minded partner.

Would I allow another guy to ejaculate inside me. No, not unless I knew him very well and was virtually certain he had never engaged in anal sex with other partners.

[sparkmaster69]

"As an aside... I never understand this "makes me feel like a woman" mindset a lot of men have."

This is an easy one. There is probably not too many people who aren't told that sex is only supposed to be between men and women, no exceptions. A lot of guys get into sucking cock - traditionally a woman's thing to do - or being fucked - also traditionally a woman's thing to have done - and "makes me feel like a woman" just pops into their head. Throughout my life, I've heard many a man say that having sex with another man makes them feel girly when they're in the in female/submissive role of sex and I reasoned that breaking the social conditioning that mandates this happens but it still sticks in your head anyway. You know it's only supposed to be boy/girl... and you've said, "To hell with that!" - you still remember it. I don't think it's all that much about being submissive or a matter of gender dysphoria. "Being a man" and all that's supposed to mean has been pounded into every male head for only God knows how long and, at least in my perspective, M2M stuff has only just "recently" gotten away from this kind of sex being unmanly and more talk about what "real men" can do if they want to. I recall thinking, the first time I came across this change in things, that, yeah - it take a man to do something they say men aren't supposed to do and knowing how much shit is gonna be flung their way for doing it.

All sorts of manly things: Courage, nerve, resolve, cutting out the dumb shit and getting right to the heart of the matter of things and without being indecisive about it. You know... man stuff. A lot of men can throw it down with another man and are very damned manly even when they're being ridden hard and put away wet... and some men still have that "this is a girl's thing to do!" thing hanging out in the back of their minds, that and when you have sex with a woman - and you're paying attention to how they react during sex and all that - well, some guys find they behave the exact same way or close enough for government work; hence, they feel like a woman when they are taken by a man - and either they like this feeling or they don't.

I'm not even gonna get into that "I was born into the wrong body" stuff because, again, I know too many men who feel girly when having sex with a guy - and they'd never even think about having their gender reassigned. It's just a feeling and one borne out of the only thing they have a real reference to point to: Having sex with a woman and what a woman's role in sex is supposed to be: They suck cock and get fucked. We, on the other hand, have one job to do: Fuck women but, um, hmm, don't we know that this ain't how it can really work? We can fuck other men and be fucked by them; we can be head over heels sucking a guy's cock and taking his sperm - that thing that only women are supposed to do (again).

It's not that hard to figure out and it's not always some more deeply seated psychological issue like gender dysphoria - it's just the way someone feels.

My sentiments exactly. I have never felt like a woman or subservient always masculine and in control.
To the thread at hand I love to take a nice load in my anus but I have know and trust that person to allow that to happen. Actually in the last 15yrs I had 2 incouters of the stranger kind and condoms were a must.To be honest although extremely hot and crazy those incounters not as satisfying. To reseive a mans naked cocks gift of his seed is so exciting and an erotica natural high.
As a matter of fact I meet a new lover and had an excellent time sucking and fucking and making out and cuddling over the course of 4hrs. Hopefully a ltfwb relationship is in the future. Tomorrow we go to the LGBT clinic and get tested.
Looking forward to having my new lover truly and completely.

[Franz007]

"As an aside... I never understand this "makes me feel like a woman" mindset a lot of men have."

This is an easy one. There is probably not too many people who aren't told that sex is only supposed to be between men and women, no exceptions. A lot of guys get into sucking cock - traditionally a woman's thing to do - or being fucked - also traditionally a woman's thing to have done - and "makes me feel like a woman" just pops into their head. Throughout my life, I've heard many a man say that having sex with another man makes them feel girly when they're in the in female/submissive role of sex and I reasoned that breaking the social conditioning that mandates this happens but it still sticks in your head anyway. You know it's only supposed to be boy/girl... and you've said, "To hell with that!" - you still remember it. I don't think it's all that much about being submissive or a matter of gender dysphoria. "Being a man" and all that's supposed to mean has been pounded into every male head for only God knows how long and, at least in my perspective, M2M stuff has only just "recently" gotten away from this kind of sex being unmanly and more talk about what "real men" can do if they want to. I recall thinking, the first time I came across this change in things, that, yeah - it take a man to do something they say men aren't supposed to do and knowing how much shit is gonna be flung their way for doing it.

All sorts of manly things: Courage, nerve, resolve, cutting out the dumb shit and getting right to the heart of the matter of things and without being indecisive about it. You know... man stuff. A lot of men can throw it down with another man and are very damned manly even when they're being ridden hard and put away wet... and some men still have that "this is a girl's thing to do!" thing hanging out in the back of their minds, that and when you have sex with a woman - and you're paying attention to how they react during sex and all that - well, some guys find they behave the exact same way or close enough for government work; hence, they feel like a woman when they are taken by a man - and either they like this feeling or they don't.

I'm not even gonna get into that "I was born into the wrong body" stuff because, again, I know too many men who feel girly when having sex with a guy - and they'd never even think about having their gender reassigned. It's just a feeling and one borne out of the only thing they have a real reference to point to: Having sex with a woman and what a woman's role in sex is supposed to be: They suck cock and get fucked. We, on the other hand, have one job to do: Fuck women but, um, hmm, don't we know that this ain't how it can really work? We can fuck other men and be fucked by them; we can be head over heels sucking a guy's cock and taking his sperm - that thing that only women are supposed to do (again).

It's not that hard to figure out and it's not always some more deeply seated psychological issue like gender dysphoria - it's just the way someone feels.

Yes exactly. And each person has a masculine and feminine part. I enjoy living out my feminine part when having sex with men. Its my "kink" and i like it. I never understood why some people cannot understand that simple thing. On the other side i dont understand why a bisexual guy would want to fuck a guy because i personnaly find a guy's ass disgusting and would prefer a woman for that. I was never attracted by porn where two manly guys fuck each others. I find it disgusting. I prefer the scenes where an older active guy fucks a younger hairless and slim guy who is submissive. I dont have any interest in having sex with men outside of this combination. Perhaps i am just not enough gay for it *LOL*

[Franz007]

My thought is get yourself and your partner(s) tested before hand then have as much unprotected sex as you'd like.

Random partners... honestly never a great idea in this day and age. I understand that sometimes it just happens and all, but you should really try to make a conscious effort to know the people you're having sex with before having sex with them.

As an aside... I never understand this "makes me feel like a woman" mindset a lot of men have. I have never once felt anything less than masculine being with other men, whether I was topping or bottoming. I also don't inherently feel submissive when receiving. I mean a chic's not inherently submissive from receiving, why would a man be? I wonder that if you're having these feelings about "being a woman" if you should not consider seeing a psychologist to determine whether or not you have gender dysphoria. Maybe you'd feel better in life if you embraced it and began a transition?

Having your partner tested isnt a guarantee that he wont have another partner on the side. But using PREP is a 99% security for yourself against HIV, even higher than with a condom, since they can fail more often. And i would really want to crossdress, since its my kink. I dont want to be a female in my everyday‘s life. Thanks for worrying about me ;-)

[SilkyHoseLover]

I enjoy living out my feminine part when having sex with men. Its my "kink" and i like it. I never understood why some people cannot understand that simple thing. On the other side i dont understand why a bisexual guy would want to fuck a guy because i personnaly find a guy's ass disgusting and would prefer a woman for that. I was never attracted by porn where two manly guys fuck each others. I find it disgusting. I prefer the scenes where an older active guy fucks a younger hairless and slim guy who is submissive. I dont have any interest in having sex with men outside of this combination.

I feel much the same way, generally, but stop short of using the word 'disgusting'. I'm simply not attracted to man's hairy ass or two beefy guys getting it on. That's the way many men prefer it, and more power to them. Just not my 'thing'...

[cbb83]

Having your partner tested isnt a guarantee that he wont have another partner on the side. But using PREP is a 99% security for yourself against HIV, even higher than with a condom, since they can fail more often. And i would really want to crossdress, since its my kink. I dont want to be a female in my everyday‘s life. Thanks for worrying about me ;-)

:-P

As for the getting some on the side... true. If you're not exclusive or at the very least exclusive to a select group that is a risk. Honestly didn't consider that at the time I wrote it, my mind is not wont to go into such scenarios so I sometimes overlook them.

[orca694u]

I have enjoyed the wonderful experience of being fucked long, hard, and deep and then be rewarded with a load of sweet cum. I love the feeling as my man's cock swells and I feel him filling my manhole with cum.

[KDaddy23]

“On the other side i dont understand why a bisexual guy would want to fuck a guy because i personnaly find a guy's ass disgusting and would prefer a woman for that. I was never attracted by porn where two manly guys fuck each others. I find it disgusting.”

Well, isn’t that interesting! Tell us... what’s the difference? An ass is an ass... isn’t it?

[zgay73]

“On the other side i dont understand why a bisexual guy would want to fuck a guy because i personnaly find a guy's ass disgusting and would prefer a woman for that. I was never attracted by porn where two manly guys fuck each others. I find it disgusting.”

Well, isn’t that interesting! Tell us... what’s the difference? An ass is an ass... isn’t it?

Uhm, he also states " I prefer the scenes where an older active guy fucks a younger hairless and slim guy who is submissive", so an ass looks likes it's an ass after all lol. Everyone is different, we all have our quirks and desires.

[sparkmaster69]

https://xhamster.com/videos/ts-me-10151561 Receiving a nice load.

[KDaddy23]

@zbi73 - Yeah, I saw that... which is what made me ask the question...

[Robtiti]

https://xhamster.com/videos/ts-me-10151561 Receiving a nice load.

Can't watch the video.Restricted.

[RisingBi]

I've only fucked three women in my life, two long-term girlfriends and a prostitute once. I've always used a condom and only vaginal intercourse. With my last girlfriend (we just broke up after 3 years together), I had fucked her pussy a couple times without a condom, and it felt AMAZING. But she also got to LOVE anal, and I've spent many hours tonguefucking her perfect asshole and fucking it with my cock, always bareback (without any worry of pregnancy of course)!! OMG, the feeling of my bare cock in her exquisite hole was out of this world, and I often unloaded my cum inside her. And she always came from the rimming if that's all we did, but otherwise always from the ass fucking. Always! And that made fucking her ass and ejaculating inside her even more pleasurable for me. It felt so awesome and intimate to be feeding her with my semen and sperm.


When it comes to men, I had powerful fantasies for almost 20 years to fuck other men, both giving and receiving, and especially bareback. There's just something so incredibly special in my mind about sharing each other's seed, of pumping the other guy's bowels with cum, and imagining each of our sperm swimming through each other's body (I know that's not real), each of our seed merging with the other man's body. I can't think of anything more intimate between two men, sexually speaking.


When I finally got the opportunity in 2013, after finally having great anal desires with a real guy I met in a bathhouse, to lose my virginity as a top, and finally fuck another man's ass, albeit with a condom, that changed everything for me. It started me on the road of having more anal play with men, and I was loving it. Having now just broken up with my girlfriend, I will be getting myself out there again to have sex with guys, including rimming & fucking, and also finally losing my bottom virginity. But I will always do it with a condom until I find a regular fuck buddy, and we get tested negative for all STDs, and stay exclusive with each other, to fuck each other's brains out bareback as much as possible. I want to share my seed with another man, and have him share his with me. I want that kind of intimacy.

[cbb83]

“On the other side i dont understand why a bisexual guy would want to fuck a guy because i personnaly find a guy's ass disgusting and would prefer a woman for that. I was never attracted by porn where two manly guys fuck each others. I find it disgusting.”

Well, isn’t that interesting! Tell us... what’s the difference? An ass is an ass... isn’t it?

Believe it or not, they're not precisely the same. The hole itself is the same. And the space inside is the same. But the musculature around a man's anus is actually different and usually stronger than a woman's and capable of more complex motions due to the prostate function. If a guy trains in this... it can feel pretty amazing. So imo, anal with a guy can actually be better.

That said... BUTTS are different, too! The shape, texture, firmness, muscle differences, and so on. Personally I think a woman's ass is far lovelier, but a man's ass (who has actually worked on their glutes) is pretty damned nice, too, and can promise some of the above qualities which make the thought tantalizing.

That said... topping a man's ass is imo better than topping a woman's ass. Although I also think you simply cannot beat a girl's womanhood for topping. It's basically perfect and designed for the task, lol. As for receiving anal, men have some pleasure advantages for themselves there that women don't as well. So really... anal kind of seems more like a man's game.

[Franz007]

Well, isn’t that interesting! Tell us... what’s the difference? An ass is an ass... isn’t it?

No, i was talking about fucking a woman in the pussy, not in the ass. I don’t fuck asses.

[Christopher South]

Everyone assesses the risks of their behavior (or should). In my case I was intimate with a guy who told me we were exclusive. He had difficulty staying hard when wearing a condom so I agreed that we could go bareback. Well, he wasn't exclusive and I caught chlamydia from him. It would have easily been AIDS I caught.

I always use a condom now and make sure my partner wears one when we do anal. I can't take PrEP so this is the best protection I can use. I assess the risk and this is how I address it.

[sparkmaster69]

Can't watch the video.Restricted.

Made public enjoy.

[crazytrain]

I haven't experienced this yet but I want to very badly

[chongster]

The first time I ever fucked a guy bareback was a hot CD trans. I licked her ass and fucked her hard and planted my seed as deep as possible. Since I have fucked a couple guys on prep bare, I love the feeling but not the risk.
I fucked a hot smooth twink one morning on his way to work and it was a huge turn on to know I sent him to work with my seed deep in his ass.