What was your first experience like visiting a gay sauna / bathhouse, how were the nerves going through the door.
Did it live up to what you expected
Was it a once only experience or have you visited a gay sauna / bathhouse since
Personally I have never been ................ just asking for a friend
My first experience was enjoyable. It didn't exceed anything a good time was had. My 2nd experience was awesome!
As I suspected ................. need to do more than one visit ............... the things we need to do in the name of funOriginally Posted by iamcontent
I've only been once & I was dissapointed. I wasn't nervous or anything, but I only saw seriously overweight guys while i was there & they wouldn't take no for an answer. I know I need to try it again but its a long way from where I live. I wish there was something closer so I could try more often.
I would like to have sex with someone I'm comfortable with, and overweight and not my type wouldn't work. I'm not a super hot stud but the person I have sex with needs to be close to where I am. And by the way my wife is way more hotter and fit than me so the bar is pretty high.
Like getting a diagnosis from a Dr Always get a 2nd opinion ��
I'm going to say NO, as I don't want an "Unwelcomed Gift" that will keep on giving. . .
If it is to be, let it be with me
i have been going to bathhouses for 40 years or so. true , you see a lot of old fat men , but on occasion you may find a handsome young man. i have had sex with some really hot guys in these places. i even made friends with some of them and had sex for some time after. one guy was younger than me and had a wife that we had 3 somes with for years. can you imagine how hot it was to fuck both the husband and wife ? ah , wonderful days.
I've been to a bathhouse a few times. I was extremely nervous that I would run into someone I knew. The first time was great, walking around in a towel and knowing why everyone was there. I ended up letting a guy suck me off. The second time, I was getting a bj in the gloryhole maze and then he tried to back his ass up onto my dick bare. NOPE. The third time I looked around and ended up stroking myself in my private room. The last time, I went into the sauna, where a guy started sucking me. We went back to my private room where he tried to fuck me, but he couldn't get it up.What was your first experience like visiting a gay sauna / bathhouse, how were the nerves going through the door.
Did it live up to what you expected
Was it a once only experience or have you visited a gay sauna / bathhouse since
Personally I have never been ................ just asking for a friend
There are too many old, obese and non-english speaking guys there. I guess that's a good thing. If there were nothing but attractive guys there, I'd probably be playing for hours.
I gave my first BJ to a man in a gay bathhouse in SF when I was 25 in 1979. This was before AIDS/HIV so I felt fairly safe having unprotected sex with a complete stranger.
I was bi-curious and had already let a man, a complete stranger, give me a hand job in a straight porno theater when I was 22 (this was in 1976). I knew I liked having my cock touched by a man but I wanted to see what it was like to touch another man's cock, take it into my mouth and find out if I liked sucking cock or not. I was living in LA and was very concerned about someone I knew seeing me so I decided to go to SF and visit a bathhouse there to have my first experience giving a BJ.
It was a weekday morning and I entered the bathhouse, paid my money and was given a towel and a key to a private room. I went to the room, took off my clothes and headed out to explore the bathhouse and hopefully hook up with a suitable man. I went past the shower area and came across the sauna. I decided to go in and found it empty. I sat for a while by myself and after about 15 minutes or so I was pretty hot and sweaty so I decided to go back to the showers and get cleaned up. After I washed I decided to head back to the sauna.
This time the sauna was not empty. There were two men in it. One at the far end of the sauna and one sitting on a bench just inside the door. I decided to sit down next to the man sitting on the bench just inside the door. Out of the corner of my eye I could see that he was touching his cock. The man at the other end of the sauna could see this and decided to leave. I wanted to let the man sitting next to me to know that I was interested in him so I put my hand down to my pubic hair and moved my hand back and forth, careful not to touch my cock. As soon as I did that the man put his hand on my back. That was all the encouragement I needed. I got up from the bench and moved in between his legs. His cock was semi hard and sticking out. I reached out with my left hand and started to gently stroke his cock. It was very large, thick and cut. It felt amazing to actually be touching another man's cock for the first time and feeling his cock get harder and longer in my hand As much as I enjoyed touching his cock I knew I wanted to take him in my mouth so I moved in closer, closed my eyes and took his cock into my mouth. I began to move back and forth on his cock, gently sucking him and paying special attention to the very large head since that was what I enjoyed most when a woman would give me a BJ.. I knew immediately that I could do this, that I didn't hate it and that I actually really liked having him in my mouth. I could feel his cock getting bigger and harder as I sucked him. The idea that someone could come into the sauna and see me giving this man a BJ crossed my mind but I was so into what I was doing I decided I didn't care if someone came into the sauna and saw me sucking this man's cock.
This went on for about five minutes and then the man said we should go to his room. He had become fully erect by then and his cock was about eight or nine inches long and very thick. I said OK and told him I was only interested in giving him a hand job or a blowjob. I wanted him to know I was not at all interested in him fucking me. He said that was fine and off we went to his room.
When we got to his room he laid down on the small cot that was provided. I knelt at the side and leaned over his waist, reached for his cock and resumed sucking him.. After a short time he asked me to lick and suck his balls and he spread his legs so I could move in between them and have access to his balls. Like his cock, his balls were big.. I licked and gently sucked on them for several minutes, slowly stroking his cock as it leaked precum while I was exploring his balls with my tongue and mouth. His cock and balls had a very strong musky masculine smell that oddly really excited me.
I wanted his cock back in my mouth so I started licking and sucking his cock again. I decided after about 15 minutes of this that I wanted to make him cum so I stared sucking his cock with a faster rhythm, paying extra attention to the large mushroom head with my tongue while sucking him. I had one hand on his cock and I cupped and gently rubbed his balls with the other hand. He was breathing harder now and his cock was leaking a constant stream of pre-cum into my mouth. Tasting his pre-cum got me even hotter because I knew he was getting closer to climaxing.
All of a sudden he took both his hands and put them on the back of my head. I sensed that this meant he was about to cum and that he intended to cum in my mouth. I wanted to see what it was like to have a man cum in my mouth so I kept on with my sucking. I felt his cock getting even harder and a few seconds later I. felt his cock spasm and I could feel the pumping motion of his cock ejaculating his cum into my mouth. There were about four or five really good spurts. It was a big load, very thick and very very tasty. I continued sucking until he stopped cumming and swirled the cum around in my mouth before finally swallowing it down. I quickly realized that having him cum in my mouth was something I really liked and that I would want to do this again with other men. The man took his hands off of my head. He thanked me and told me I gave a very good BJ and i left. .I could taste and smell his cum for hours afterwards and was glad that I did because it was a great reminder of what I had just done for the rest of the day.
Little did he know that he was my very first BJ and cum swallow..
There are no bathhouses in my area. If there were, I am sure I would have attended.
This is the story of my second and last visit to a gay bathhouse. It is also the story of the first time I let a man give me a blowjob.
I was 26 years old and I was exploring my bisexual side. It was 1979 so HIV and AIDs were not a concern. I had already let a man, a total stranger, give me a HJ when I was 22. This occurred in straight porn theater in Hollywood. Three years later I had my first experience giving a man a BJ (I had him cum in my mouth and swallowed.) at a bathhouse in San Francisco ( I lived in LA at the time). Both of those experiences were very hot and I enjoyed them very much.
My gay friend, Terry, had told me he wanted to give me a BJ one night when I was over at his apartment. I turned him down but I was very intrigued by the idea of actually letting him suck my cock. Before I let Terry give me a BJ I wanted to make sure that I could reciprocate and that I would enjoy the experience of having a man suck my cock..
Seven months after giving my first BJ in a bathhouse in SF I decided I was ready to have a man suck my cock, hopefully to completion. I knew there was a bathhouse on Melrose in West Hollywood so on a Saturday night I decided to go there with the intent of having a man suck me and make me cum.. I parked my car went in, paid my money at the front desk and was given a very small towel and a locker key. I went to the locker room and took off all of my clothes and put them in the locker. The towel they had given me was far too small to wrap around my 28 inch waist so I would be totally naked.. I had been to a nude beach four years before that was mostly made up of men who were obviously interested in only men and I enjoyed being on display for them and having them check me out as I went in an out of the ocean. . I had also been nude at the bathhouse in SF so I had no problem with the fact that I would be totally naked in front of a lot of gay men. .
I came out of the locker room and saw a stair way going up to the second floor and decided to check it out. At the top of the stairs was a very bright light. There was a group of young guys standing around and just beyond them, where the lighting was much dimmer, there was a mass of men going all the way to the back wall. This was a very large room, about 30 feet wide and 70 feet long. Part of this room just inside the entrance to the left was totally empty. No one was having sex there. That area was a very well lit up area and all of the sex was happening in the area that was dark about 15 feet away from the light at the entrance. It was obvious that the men having sex preferred to do it in the mass of bodies that were in the dark.
Nothing was happening in the well lit area so I decided to venture out into the mass of men in the dark area of the room and made my way carefully through the tangle of men on the carpeted floor having sex. There were all kinds of noises....sucking and fucking type noises. I didn't want to just want to plop down on the floor and join in on some activity that was already going on so I went back to the entrance where the light was.
I decided I wanted a one on one situation with no one else involved. There were more young men standing around now and more coming in. All of us were just standing around naked with our soft cocks hanging out, waiting for someone to approach us. I was far too horny at this point to just stand there so I decided to take matters into my hands and I began to touch my cock to see what would happen. I started pulling on my cock with my left hand (I had my little towel and my locker key in my right hand) and it did not take long for my cock to noticeably react to my touch. My cock started to get hard and this turned me on even more. All of the men standing there were watching me as my six inch cut cock grew from soft to hard. I had no idea what I was going to do when I became fully erect when one of the guys said "You have a nice cock. Can I touch it?" He was nice looking and had a good body so I said "Yes".
I then made my way over to the area that was pretty well lit up about fifteen feet away from the darkened area where all the sex was going on. I laid down with my head on my little folded towel up against the wall and I spread my legs. It was very obvious what I wanted and what I expected. I wanted very badly for the man who had approached me to take my hard cock into his mouth and suck me. He followed me and moved in between my legs on his knees, took my hard cock in his hand and began to suck me. It was amazing. I had received oral from lots of women but nothing could compare with what this man was doing to me. It felt really really really good. Suddenly he stopped sucking me and moved his body so that his ass was just over my cock which he was holding straight up. I wanted no part of fucking him so I told him I didn't want to do that and he went back to licking and sucking my cock and balls..
By now the room was very crowded in the area under the light where we were all by ourselves and everyone that came in could clearly see me getting sucked by this man. Little did they know that I was experiencing my very first blowjob from a man. It made me even more aroused to be on public display that way and I started whispering to the guy sucking me "Make me cum, make me cum...." over and over again as he sucked my cock. All these men were watching me get my first BJ from a man and now I wanted them to see and hear me cumming while this man finished sucking me off. I had wanted to put on a show for all the men just standing there in the light watching me being sucked and that included watching me orgasm Out of nowhere I suddenly felt myself cumming in his mouth.. It was very intense and I couldn't help raising my hips and cock up off the carpeted floor as I came (I was laying down). I usually can feel an orgasm coming on but I was so mesmerized by what he was doing to me (he was very skilled at sucking cock) that when I came it was almost a complete surprise to me even though I was totally hot from what he was doing to me.. He kept me in his mouth the whole time I was cumming and knew exactly when my cock was getting too sensitive. At that point he took his mouth off of me.
Unlike many men who lose interest in more sex when they cum I could not wait to reciprocate and suck his cock. His cock had gotten hard while he sucked me and I told him I wanted to suck his cock and have him cum in my mouth, that I wanted to taste his cum and swallow it.. He had a nice average sized cock that curved upwards slightly and I took him into my mouth. The crowd of people that had watched me getting sucked now watched me suck this man's cock. I love sucking cock and it wasn't long before he came in my mouth and I tasted his load, savored it and swallowed it.
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